tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5102748566119761703.post1075002595910763169..comments2023-11-19T15:05:03.540-08:00Comments on . introverted art .: it only hurts because you careIntroverted Arthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00039583784959811799noreply@blogger.comBlogger53125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5102748566119761703.post-79398683009813893342013-01-02T04:48:00.597-08:002013-01-02T04:48:00.597-08:00great story!
yes, sometimes truly not caring IS th...great story!<br />yes, sometimes truly not caring IS the best option.Splendid Little Starshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10732090154244573323noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5102748566119761703.post-31267322934697868372012-12-31T03:27:46.224-08:002012-12-31T03:27:46.224-08:00I just want to wish you Happy New Year, dear! http...I just want to wish you Happy New Year, dear! http://moustachesblog.blogspot.it/2012/12/happy-new-lucky-year.htmlMichelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02411869523739427536noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5102748566119761703.post-26534730690206332092012-12-30T22:30:15.325-08:002012-12-30T22:30:15.325-08:00Gosh, not caring is so hard to do sometimes! It is...Gosh, not caring is so hard to do sometimes! It is liberating though :)<br />Love your story about the baby bottle.<br />xogeetleehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11344037560037566442noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5102748566119761703.post-8041322248097093952012-12-30T16:59:44.199-08:002012-12-30T16:59:44.199-08:00Wonderful art, Ana. I could have writen the first ...Wonderful art, Ana. I could have writen the first part of this post, in particular all things related to "replaying the tape". "Not to care" is the best option but sometimes in order to reach that attitude I need to be assertive (something that I don´t find always easy because I don´t like confrontations) and speak my mind in order to achieve some peace Zenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18115547058200216413noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5102748566119761703.post-50584469915449277342012-12-30T16:59:43.166-08:002012-12-30T16:59:43.166-08:00Wonderful art, Ana. I could have writen the first ...Wonderful art, Ana. I could have writen the first part of this post, in particular all things related to "replaying the tape". "Not to care" is the best option but sometimes in order to reach that attitude I need to be assertive (something that I don´t find always easy because I don´t like confrontations) and speak my mind in order to achieve some peace Zenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18115547058200216413noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5102748566119761703.post-74963531632444549102012-12-29T03:52:54.693-08:002012-12-29T03:52:54.693-08:00sometimes it's better not to care, but somehow...sometimes it's better not to care, but somehow, when family is involved, not caring is hard.. at least for me.. wish you a Happy New Year!Michaelahttp://el-mundo-en-colores.blogspot.fi/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5102748566119761703.post-59206315827094929272012-12-29T02:21:04.840-08:002012-12-29T02:21:04.840-08:00Belas Artes!
Feliz 2013. Um abraço especial de Bo...Belas Artes! <br />Feliz 2013. Um abraço especial de Boas Festas.:.tossan®https://www.blogger.com/profile/06119769892199625296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5102748566119761703.post-56548900273176553022012-12-28T16:47:37.527-08:002012-12-28T16:47:37.527-08:00I'll need to remember this bit of advice the n...I'll need to remember this bit of advice the next time I receive an unkind comment. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5102748566119761703.post-77577418632818401092012-12-28T14:58:36.721-08:002012-12-28T14:58:36.721-08:00ana, your painting is lovely! how brave of you to ...ana, your painting is lovely! how brave of you to listen to what you want instead of caring about other's opinions. :)Teddihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13967940035596403932noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5102748566119761703.post-10107908403098328402012-12-28T13:45:50.817-08:002012-12-28T13:45:50.817-08:00I hope your pretty butterflies helped you feel bet...I hope your pretty butterflies helped you feel better. Art can be very helpful that way, don't you think?Elizabeth Rose Stantonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05725663688810441280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5102748566119761703.post-40713743582643345672012-12-28T13:38:47.092-08:002012-12-28T13:38:47.092-08:00Ana, thank you for the heads-up about my site. I r...Ana, thank you for the heads-up about my site. I removed that site you told me about from my blog roll and notified the admin of that site. Hopefully I won't have to move : )<br />LynnAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5102748566119761703.post-41038431312283070362012-12-28T13:07:22.733-08:002012-12-28T13:07:22.733-08:00Beautiful butterfly painting, Ana! Maturity is wha...Beautiful butterfly painting, Ana! Maturity is what it is called to be independent of what others think or say emotionally and still be positive towards them.Sofiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02152110856116794602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5102748566119761703.post-38931834077358451622012-12-28T11:43:25.156-08:002012-12-28T11:43:25.156-08:00Your painting is beautiful, so free.
It's har...Your painting is beautiful, so free.<br /><br />It's hard not to care when someone says something hurtful, but as you get older it does hurt less I find.<br /><br />Your story about your baby bottle is so cute it did make me smile!<br /><br />Happy New Year to you xxSherryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03684895103577208094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5102748566119761703.post-35249744150742989922012-12-28T09:54:02.647-08:002012-12-28T09:54:02.647-08:00I think my comment disappeared...oh well : )
You g...I think my comment disappeared...oh well : )<br />You go Ana!<br />LynnAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5102748566119761703.post-43667055327232035882012-12-28T09:50:54.873-08:002012-12-28T09:50:54.873-08:00I SO understand! And from relatives it is even wor...I SO understand! And from relatives it is even worse because you can't tell them off. I had an aunt who used to say that I looked nice for a "larger" girl (!) I mean really! Just don't say anything if you think I'm a whale (her kids are the teensiest people ever, and I am just normal! )<br />So , yes, roll with it!<br />LynnAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5102748566119761703.post-92178196879907092292012-12-28T04:42:53.250-08:002012-12-28T04:42:53.250-08:00That's the hardest response of all--no respons...That's the hardest response of all--no response. I understand about the replay in the mind. Good for you for accomplishing it!<br />Have you seen this?<br />http://www.thepowerofintroverts.com/about-the-book/<br />I thought it was good.<br />Happy New YearMartha Leverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17832760200046562038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5102748566119761703.post-51539797496734646542012-12-27T22:47:13.809-08:002012-12-27T22:47:13.809-08:00Amazing Post.
It doesn't really matter what ...Amazing Post. <br /><br />It doesn't really matter what others think. At the end of the day, who are we to confront? <br />Self..right? then, who gives a s*it?<br /><br /><br />Nevermind. <br />Take Care :)The Purple Assassin.https://www.blogger.com/profile/15095965913335974493noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5102748566119761703.post-41800601797992326202012-12-27T17:33:46.421-08:002012-12-27T17:33:46.421-08:00I sure wish I could take this advice. I would just...I sure wish I could take this advice. I would just love to 'not care' about some of the hurtful things said to me. You're a sweetheart to share your feelings, my friend! I admire you! ~Lavender Dreamer~https://www.blogger.com/profile/06298191144517740164noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5102748566119761703.post-41421106987276970942012-12-27T13:15:44.022-08:002012-12-27T13:15:44.022-08:00Good on you Ana... I, too, have taken the same app...Good on you Ana... I, too, have taken the same approach with a similar experience I have with a family member... your painting is vibrant and gorgeous... love the colors...<br /><br />Jenny ♥Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07921095763159263461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5102748566119761703.post-84367829718580089572012-12-27T09:28:01.026-08:002012-12-27T09:28:01.026-08:00I can so relate to this. It is a wonder sometimes ...I can so relate to this. It is a wonder sometimes (at least to me) how I could grow up in a household and be so different from one of those people? But I find that trying to change the opinion isn't very helpful. the person is not open to discussion, and only ends in hurt feelings all around. Letting go of the whole thing ends up far more peaceful. Sadly. but it just isAntiquityTravelershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09448273777508831649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5102748566119761703.post-92197146570592675712012-12-27T09:26:59.696-08:002012-12-27T09:26:59.696-08:00We definitely have the power to control our reacti...We definitely have the power to control our reactions.Jen Pricehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04257374047455590078noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5102748566119761703.post-8876123624471813792012-12-27T08:26:44.634-08:002012-12-27T08:26:44.634-08:00You can't change the other person, but only th...You can't change the other person, but only the way you act youreself. Sometimes its best to leave it that way and say nothing and sometimes you have to drop the bomb. Or remind that person about it later. Love the colours you used in this one. So bright and shiny like a summer breeze...<br />Send you a very big hug!Nadiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09633575226585158976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5102748566119761703.post-13300864527233100922012-12-27T07:29:26.807-08:002012-12-27T07:29:26.807-08:00Having been ostracized from my family who live in ...Having been ostracized from my family who live in this area for the last two years I can understand. I don't know that I will ever be able to 'not care' but at least this yeat the depression lifted and I was able to enjoy the holidays with friends. Sometimes family is the worst!!The Dancing Cronehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12661825713234722591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5102748566119761703.post-67889689097920462012012-12-27T04:56:09.434-08:002012-12-27T04:56:09.434-08:00Dear Ana, this has happened to me over christmas t...Dear Ana, this has happened to me over christmas too, when someone hurt my feelings and upset me. When it happens it hurts but then I turn to myself and think of something I might have said in the past that could have hurt someone unwittingly. I would be so upset if I had hurt someone. My person in question who has hurt me perhaps doesn't know the damage that was caused by the remarks. I hope that if I ever said something hurtful that I would be told so I can put it right. This is quite often a volatile time of year when people think it's ok to say what they like without thought.<br />Lots of ((hugs)) to you. :)<br />Jess xJesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17593348601123003194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5102748566119761703.post-57408081772822355342012-12-27T04:34:19.753-08:002012-12-27T04:34:19.753-08:00People like this are such a challenge...with time,...People like this are such a challenge...with time, I have learned to remind myself that their thoughtlessness reflects only on them and not on me. It's their shortcoming to deal with and not my responsibility to take it on internally. Your baby bottle story was so sweet...you had such gumption and courage, even when you were tiny! Sherri B.https://www.blogger.com/profile/00834386300886224116noreply@blogger.com